Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Life Lessons
- Believe in yourself. Know that you are capable of anything.
- Your career does not define you. It is merely one aspect of your many sides.
- Know that there are consequences to your actions but don’t let this knowledge scare you into a mediocre life.
- Experiment! It is through experimentation that you will grow and thrive. Mistakes = experimentation. It’s OK.
- Be honest with yourself. Then be honest with others.
- Be true to your nature.
- Respect your fellow human beings.
- Tell those you love that you love them.
- Say “no” instead of doing things with resentment. Resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It will create distance and it will poison your relationships.
- Don’t be afraid to admit when you have made a mistake. Apologise. This build’s character.
Things will not always go your way. It is not the hand that you’ve been dealt. It’s what you choose to do with this hand. - Healthy relationships require effort from both parties.
- You may not always agree with me and you may sometimes think that I am an asshole. Know that whatever I do I do because I love you. I am doing my best and expect you to outgrow me. My best will probably not measure up to yours.
- Be kind to your elders. You may not always agree with their opinions but they do have wisdom to share with you.
- When people give you advice then take away that which makes sense to you and discard that which you do not agree with.
- Arguments and conflict are not necessarily bad things. It could be viewed as an opportunity to grow and strengthen relationships.
- Facing this world will often require you to be courageous. Having courage is not living without fear. Instead, it is blazing your trail in the presence of your fear.
- It really helps to see the glass half full as opposed to half empty.
- Make time for reflection. I do not do this enough. Book some “me time” in your diary. Consider this a space for you to be with yourself, selfish time. It will rejuvenate you.
Listen to your heart. Your mind is a great analytical/planning tool meant to achieve your heart’s desires. You are so much more than your thoughts. - Be wary of your mind. Without your heart it can make your life hell on earth. It did mine.
- Don’t be too caught up in the past or the future. Make an effort, instead, to be present in the “now”. This is difficult or, at least, it is difficult for me. Being in the now will bring clarity to your situation and will make decision-making easier.
- You may think that it’s important to know what will happen next and that planning is very important. It is very important but remember that a plan is just a plan. There are no guarantees.
- Don’t let others tell you how to live your life. I am sure that, by now, you mom and I have done so too many a time. Living for others means giving your power away. You have the power of choice. It’s yours. You only have one life. Treasure it. Appreciate it. Enjoy it. Life is short.
- There is nothing wrong with crying. You will experience an amazing release afterwards.
Make time for exercise. - Eat healthy. I am 37 and have a tummy that your granny (your mom’s mom) has commented on at least twice thus far.
- Make an effort to understand human nature. Read and attend courses. It will help you to relate in a healthy way.
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