Monday, August 3, 2009

The spouse ...

I know of at least 4 coaches who yearn for a much deeper connection with their respective spouses. There tends to be an underlying feeling of sadness that the relationship could be so much more than what it is today, so much deeper. If only the spouse would consider either therapy, life coaching or a counselling/coaching related personal development training course. Then there would be hope for a healthier reality. The person I was back then when we met has changed, has become more conscious and has come to realise a few things about himself AND, as a result, a few possibilities/senarios have revealed themselves. Is this not a good example of hoping that change will happen when someone else changes? Isn't this one of the core issues? i.e. facing outward instead of inward? Who am I to judge? I am one of the 4 mentioned above.

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